My two closest girlfriends and I also are debating whether we really “need” a person.
We’re all inside our very early 40s. We married at 24, had a child, now 13, and divorced 2 yrs ago.
One other two had severe relationships, but one’s now dating many different guys, although the other single is taking a rest from dating.
We’re all working and effective at supporting ourselves (we place my ex’s child support money straight into my daughter’s education investment).
Us grew in different directions for me, having been loved and married was a great experience early, but became a struggle as both of.
We skip male business and closeness often, but i could always get some good from benefits” ( FWB to my“friend).
My scatter-dating friend states she’s happy to not maintain a relationship and likes all of the males she fulfills. Additionally she likes the shopping mode of enjoying one man for his feeling of humour, another for their sexiness, etc.
Lastly, the buddy who’s given through to relationship, is significantly enjoying her life — she attends concerts and interesting lectures on her very own, and travels alone but constantly satisfies up with a selection of great individuals (different many years and genders) whom become friends.